Yes this is my favourite quote .
I do agree many at times in life we think
Why our life alone is like this ?
Why we are going thru this?
Dont others think about me?
Why dont people understand how I would feel ?
Am I not a human, wont I get hurt?
Why people are so selfish and jealous?
Dont they care for me ?
Why they dont like me?
Why they dont talk to me?
Wht they dont tell me everything?
The list goes on ...
Trust me many at times in life I have thought all these questions but the only answer is that's how they are . That's their way and you should find your way to happiness and peace .Thinking about the same thing again and again is of no use Nothing or nobody is going to change.
I have learned it the hard way but I did it very early in my life .
Atleast I am happy that I dont have regrets and I have made many people happy in my life so far .
Ask yourself
Why you dont look at things in a normal way .
Why dont you leave it easier .
Why dont you let it go according to their wish.
Why dont you wait for the good to come to you .
What are you going to gain by others appreciating you .
What are you going to get by others telling everything to you .
Why would you want to know everything that's happening around you .
List goes on ..
So think the other way and it will make sense and you will be in peace and balance.
Every situation in life will teach you something but you should be ready to accept and implement it forever . In this way the relationships and environment can be balanced . This is what I found .
And another thing :Silence is very powerful in many ways .The strongest one .
Let me know your views .
I do agree many at times in life we think
Why our life alone is like this ?
Why we are going thru this?
Dont others think about me?
Why dont people understand how I would feel ?
Am I not a human, wont I get hurt?
Why people are so selfish and jealous?
Dont they care for me ?
Why they dont like me?
Why they dont talk to me?
Wht they dont tell me everything?
The list goes on ...
Trust me many at times in life I have thought all these questions but the only answer is that's how they are . That's their way and you should find your way to happiness and peace .Thinking about the same thing again and again is of no use Nothing or nobody is going to change.
I have learned it the hard way but I did it very early in my life .
Atleast I am happy that I dont have regrets and I have made many people happy in my life so far .
Ask yourself
Why you dont look at things in a normal way .
Why dont you leave it easier .
Why dont you let it go according to their wish.
Why dont you wait for the good to come to you .
What are you going to gain by others appreciating you .
What are you going to get by others telling everything to you .
Why would you want to know everything that's happening around you .
List goes on ..
So think the other way and it will make sense and you will be in peace and balance.
Every situation in life will teach you something but you should be ready to accept and implement it forever . In this way the relationships and environment can be balanced . This is what I found .
And another thing :Silence is very powerful in many ways .The strongest one .
Let me know your views .
It is an interesting perspective.
ReplyDelete"Silence is very powerful in many ways"
So true!
Yes. Thank you .
DeleteWonderful way of looking with a different perspective. Have a lovely day.
ReplyDeleteThabk you debbie
Delete...there's so much about life that is hard to understand.
ReplyDeleteYes true
DeleteI like this perspective. It definitely beats trying for force things your way. We must listen and think. Have a wonderful weekend.
ReplyDeleteThankyou and take care
DeleteWell written...
ReplyDeleteThanks ashok
DeleteThank you for this perspective. Thanks also for visiting my blog.
ReplyDeleteOne of the best life lessons I have learned is to be responsible for my own reactions. This pretty much takes away anger toward others and gives me peace.
As does silence, one of the most powerful things in this world. So sad it's such a noisy place. I'm happy I have the peace and silence I need here in the country. Not sure I could live in a city again.
Thank you Inger . Yes this is how I look at things around me .
DeleteWell written. I like the way you see things. Sometimes, silence is golden.
ReplyDeleteYes its golden .I learned it after a lot of sufferings but I did . Thank you Nancy and take care ♡
DeleteThank you for your comment on my blog. Yes, Silence is our greatest weapon. I watched some episodes of Buddha. I learned a lot. Buddha's philosophy is very simple but hard when practised.
ReplyDeleteOk I have not gone thru much of buddha philosophy but I think I should try . I loved your blog . Thank you once again
Deletedear Shilpa
ReplyDeletei am loving your sharing soooooooooooooo much
i think happiness that we look for outside hides within actually
when we realize that what matter most is how and what we think about ourselves and treat ourselves
life becomes simple and easy and yes BEAUTIFUL :)
Thank you baili
DeleteThis is so true, Shilpa. It all depends on how we look at various situations. Everything has a lesson for us to learn. If we understand and accept that many seemingly difficult situations in life become easier to handle.
ReplyDeleteYes with a happy face
DeleteI thank God everyday for the gift of individuality and ask him to let me see the gift of individuality in others. We don't all think alike or see things we the same point of view. That's why we shouldn't judge others.
ReplyDeleteSilence is golden. I find peace in solitude and silence especially in nature.
Thanks for the wonderful comment here . Take care
DeleteI LOVE the intro quote, I had never seen, heard, or read it before reading it here. Thank you for sharing this inspiring post.
ReplyDeleteThank you for stopping by my blog and especially for leaving such a nice comment.
Wishing you a wonderful and Safe weekend!
Oh thank you so much Dell girl.Wishing you peaceful days ahead .
DeleteFunny, this VERY thing my eldest daughter was telling me she learned recently, and shared with me. I think it is a bit of serendipity to find you posted about it.
ReplyDeleteIt is so true and so powerful to reprogram our ways of talking to ourselves.
Thank you for your visit and kind comment. I am so happy to have found your beautiful blog. Stay well.
That's a very motivating comment and thank you so much . You too take care and stay safe .Much ♡
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