House cleaning day

 Hello Everybody  !

This is my first post of 2021 . Hope all are doing well so far . 

So few days back I had to call someone from an X company for house cleaning as it was very dusty and we had just arrived home . I paid 1500 for cleaning one room in advance itself as that’s how they work and the work was not done properly . Though I told him that I am not satisfied I also posted a review on their page stating the man was in a hurry to complete the work and would not be getting their service again . 

After 3 days this man can to my home and asked what have you commented ? Because of you I lost my job for 3 days and I couldn’t buy anything for my kids . I honestly felt very bad and said I just posted a one liner comment because I dint like your service . As he said he couldn’t buy anything for his kids I gave him 200 rupees and said whatever u want for your child please buy . He got it and went . Once he got the money he said they suspended for 3 days and from tomorrow I will join back to work.He told me to delete the comment which I dint .  

My thoughts on this incident . 

1 . He should have not come home asking for the review .If the service is not good obviously I would post a comment because I am the customer .  

2 . The company shouldn’t send the employee to ask about situations like this . 

3 . This is absolutely wrong which I know and I would not call them again . 

Why I gave him money ? 

On humanity basis I felt very bad when a man told that he couldn’t buy anything for his child . I told him you are talking about not having a job for 3 days and we have been jobless for months . He never bothered it . 

Anyhow I found better people and would call them next time. 

Though I know somewhere something is wrong I am happy that I helped a man who is in a bad condition than me . That’s all . Whether he was telling a lie or was honest I have done my part . 

Dec 9 ♡

Today is our 8th Wedding Anniversary.  Though we know each other for 10 years formally its 8 ;)

So on this day I thought of writing what I feel on this journey. 

They normally say so and so years of togethersness but I would say its 8 years of fighting and winning each and every piece of moment in life .Than being together most of the time we have been in different places .We have even stayed in Mansions in seperate rooms even after our wedding . We go out on weekends and meet in the staircase with a chai for chit chat and go back to our rooms .We have been colleagues in 2 companies . The club sandwich and tea breaks were the chit chat time .But let me tell you that was the most beautiful time of life . Less money more fun .So even in reality we have lived half of our life like hostel mates or friends or colleagues. This is one of the situation example . If I start writing then it goes on hence stopping here.

More than happiness we have seen a lot of problems get into our life all the time but we have stood for each other and got it right back on track . I am so very thankful to the universe for bringing Naveen into my life .The special quality I have seen in him is he supports my whole family at any cost and he has more patience than me. That understanding with patience is a rare thing . I always pray he stays happy ..

So this wedding day was a very simple one . He got me my favourite Plum cake .Naveen got a pair of dress for me and he got 5 pairs ;) Wait .. I am super happy that he really bought something for himself . I told him to buy more actually . He never buys anything for him .He always says you all be happy and I am happy .I made his favourite Aviyal for lunch box . That's how it went and tata bye bye to Office . 

Anyhow like you all I learnt my own lessons during this Covid times and the first thing I learnt is Naveen should be first always and from now on he will be ♡ 

Hoping for many more years of friendship and then the us .Above all I have always been proud and happy that we never faked a single moment in our life . Whatever maybe our journey is right there on the table like a candle .

Love ♡ Food ♡ Sleep ♡ Peace ♡ Patience ♡ 

With love ,

Your friend 

These days .....

Though I am not that old ...I remember in olden days there was a lot of unity in most of the families .There was this joint families and there was always something special and beautiful in everybody whom I met . Now a days I think it's missing in many families and the likability of people has gone down and people have really changed into something else . I see selfish, egocentric, talkative, influencers ,dominant people more these days .

Many people are getting influenced by social media and bringing up their own rules, their views on lifestyle and relations and priorities . I think that's all fake . Even I look a bit into all the social media platform but never got carried away or I dont seek advice from social media honestly.These days I am seeing many relationships going in wrong directions due to these influencers . But yea it all depends on what you take forward but majority of the people are getting affected . 

Because of this the old systems and what the old people told for generations is getting hit and many are not following it . Though I am moderately modern person I strongly believe in the olden days things and follow many of them too . I think modern is not in the outer space and its within . 

Also, people are ready to exit or maintain a distance with relationships and it really hurts the other person . Always be careful and remeber what they were for you so far before you insult them . 

Especially during this Covid times most of them have become sensitive . Talk carefully .Never hurt someone . Yes read it again ! Never hurt anyone . You never know what they are going through.

Peace♡ 

Get up and walk ...

This might seem rude for many but if you look at it in a good way it will be fine .

At many instances when Tungli falls down I have never given too much of attention to her wantedly . I always get too much of comments on this behaviour of mine. People who see her falling tell me why dont you run and pick her up but I dont do it.If I do it I have noticed her crying more and making a scene out of it :)

So why this ? 

Firstly when she falls down I know whether it's a serious one or just a normal baby fall .

If it's a serious one I will definitely look into it . 

When she falls down I always tell her oh no Tungli slipped and I tell her to get up and walk . At first I have seen her sitting and crying later it's like she falls down ,tells Tungli slipped ,then she says it's funny and walk off .

I think this is the best thing that I have in her .

Why i did this ? 

I have seen a lot of downfalls than good things in my life . If at all she falls down i want her to get up again and walk away . Not sit and cry in the same place and make a scene out of everything that's happening in life . 

Post in what you think on this. 

Never change

This pandemic has hit many people in many ways . Few might look normal but they are not and some look abnormal but they would be happy within . 

If at all you can do something good in your life try to call others and check how they are doing . Just saying a hello doesn't take much time . That call would make the other person situations and surroundings better . They will not feel left alone or pressured to all the things happenings around.

Everybody are busy in this world but try to make some time to fellow humans . This pandemic is making people weird, selfish,jealous and what not .I am seeing so many people around myself who have changed .

Be yourself, and never forget who you are .

The Mistake

We are all human beings and we all make mistakes. Some mistakes can be corrected and some cant . Depends on what mistake you have done .When a mistake is done we have to accept it ,change it and find a way out and progress in life . 

Some do this .Not all 

I find these days the acceptance level has gone down . People dont accept their mistakes . If you cant accept the mistake then what else can be changed around ? Nothing.  

Acceptance is a great thing . If you have accepted your mistakes you are awesome ♡

My thoughts on the accident

Today afternoon while chit chatting with Tungli and Naveen we heard a loud noise below our flat. As many fire accidents happen here we immediately opened the window and saw a man on the road bleeding from head . A woman driving a car has hit him that's what we understood . Immediately the police and ambulance service did their duties . They did a CPR for him and I have no clue what happened to him .

My thoughts went like this 

Why did he cross a road which is not supposed to be ?

Who is he ? 

He would have been crossing the road after having lunch or might be crossing to go to the restaurant 

Will he be having children back in his hometown ?

Is he too young or old man? ( I couldnt see his face)

Why did he cross the road ? 

Is his family here or in hometown?

Will anybody support his family if anything happens to him 

Did his family ever know this happened to him. Probably he would have happily made a phone call to them sometime back . This would be an unexpected happening to his family 

Like this so many questions .

I kept praying god save him please . How unpredictable life is ....

Sometimes when you see these happenings you will realise tomorrow is never promised 

Be good to yourself and others too ♡ 

I wish he is saved .