I know that this is a very sensitive topic but after thinking for a long time I decided to write this here .
I think the society has to change a lot on looking at a woman .Especially after she gets married . Whether the family is concerned or not the society puts the family in a pressurized state to think on having kids soon . People wait for 3 months after the wedding and start bugging .I really dont understand why this prevails and in what way someone having a child helps the society people and why the family members keep bugging the woman just to avoid the talks of the society . Woman are badly treated and hurted for not having a child when the family needs it .
Now you might think If i have a blog i can write anything . NO!
I have my own experiences and i have seen my family and friends suffering due to this pressure.
But one thing is for sure, though the society kept asking me for 5 years on having a child ,I never had my in laws family question me or us .The society hurted me but my family dint .In that way I am so grateful to my family and god . I definitely know how it hurts .Today I have a daughter and people have started when is the second one .I just dont know why the heck they ask this . I know this is not only to me and every woman is facing this.
Firstly, Woman is the greatest enemy to a woman Its always like that . I dont understand a woman who knows the practical difficulties of getting pregnant and delivering a child asks and hurts other woman around . What does this mean ?
In my own way if I have to say woman are not ATM machines to insert the card take the cash and walk off .
Everything will happen only when it has to .
I sincerely wish people change and let go woman to decide what they need and when . A woman has to know the feelings and pain of other woman .If at all you see a woman like that around you better bless her she is a goddess♡
I wish every girl finds a loving husband and an understanding family .
Stay safe people .