Alright I am back from India vacation.
A topic that I had been thinking for a long time.Do you all call your friends or family weekly once?Why i am asking this? Because nobody does that to me.This is a topic that I had been thinking nearly for the past two years.
I have tried my best to keep up many friendships and relationships with friends cousins etc but somewhere it's disconnected.When I went to india I even asked them directly.They asked me in your free time what do you do? I said I will message or call people in india to talk.They said we would look into our family and that's the difference.This really hunted me.I don't know how come everyone whom I interacted gave the same answer.I even told them phone is the only medium to speak to all of you and I don't think they understood my feelings.For the past one year I have stopped making outgoing calls to india.I thought atleast they would call but to my surprise I get a call monthly once they too when they are free or with a reason.I am so very disappointed with this behaviour.They say they are busy.Even if they give a valid reason I can understand.Wont a human have 2 minutes to ask a how are you ?But they all have time to be online in Instagram and what not.Any how that's all not my business now.
With lots of hardships and tears I have come out of that faced.I started to focus more on me.Let me be honest it was very difficult to stop that making a call to india feeling.Now I just don't care.If anyone calls me I speak or else no.
So if there is or was anyone like me share your experience here.
Be kind with your comments please.
I am happy to have to all here to share what we think with each other.
Silence taught me a lot.A lot.
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