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This is a very sensitive topic.My daughter has a fried who is a christian boy from the age of 6.They both are 8 now.

He is a very good child.Very shy and quite.He doesnt speak much in the class but studies really well.My daughter is his only friend.He makes her cards during festivals.School ends by 3 pm and from 4 till 7 he goes for tution everyday and perfect in studies.He doesnt have any friends or does he not like to go out of house to play or make friends.

I spoke to his mother recently and she said they are a christian family and that is why he is like that.She also told me that your daughter has been the longest friend so far.Many at times i asked her why dont you take him to a park or somewhere else and try making friends.She said she herself doesnt like to take him.She is saying he tells all the kids of his age doesnt have maturity and likes to speak to people above 40 age.At some point i understood that there is something different.

She said even at school teachers are telling about him and his younger brother about the same pattern hence she is going to chanhe school as teachers dont understand her children.She tells mark is important and my son gets that then why to worry about behaviour.I think thats wrong because a teacher has rights to come up with whats happening in class and its upto the parent to take it or not.

One day she called me and said he sees a lot of recorded games at home and doesnt like to speak to girls.Thats the exact time.my daughter said he doesnt speak to me these days.I told that also to her and she said he doeant have any yopic to speak to a girl.If its boys he speaks about games cars etc.But,my question here is you say that you dont take pictures,not in social media,wont watch television wont play with the same age kids etc.Her statements are always contradictory.One day she sent me a picture of a neatly arranged table and few messages saying see how organised he is.I think she was trying to justify that they are right.But i still think there is something wrong.Either as a parent we have to accept the flaws and look to improvise or not put the blame on the complete surrounding.According to her the rest of the world is mad.

How do you see this.I think this is not my cup of tea.Have you seen such families or friends.I understand that each child is different and i myself have had different type of people come and go in life but have never met this category.

Kindly comment your thoughts on how ypu would deal with such parent personalities and child.